| Tuesday, March 04, 2008 |
| Flirt addict |
Flirting. It's so innocent and joyful and the first steps to any relationship. Right? Wrong!! Well, about the innocent part. It can get you into so many kinds of trouble but it's oh so much fun!
I'm a flirt addict and I admit it freely. Don't think there's a cure for it though and frankly, I don't know if I want one. The trouble part, well all good things have a bad something attached. It's the ying and yang thing. It sucks.
So, to continue with our subject here's the thing: I've come to discover that there's good flirting and bad flirting (ying and yang stuff again).
Let's start with the bad.
Ever seen those people that just don't know when to stop? Well, kind of like that. They bat their eyelashes, they smile till you can see their molars, they talk non-stop and, what kills me every time, they touch constantly. Don't do this!!! Most people don't really like to be stroked every other second! Anyways the bad flirting doesn't stop there. Some just go to extremes like sitting in their laps, using the lollipop thing, licking their lips suggestively. I mean really, like that will ever work on a decent human being!! Sometimes I just want to shout "Get a grip on yourself!!!"
So, the good flirting now.
Good flirting is one that isn't really visible to the naked eye. You sense it more than see it. It's sexy and fun and incredibly effective. It's our greatest weapon when trying to catch someone's eye (so to speak).
Great flirts are those that just do it naturally. They don't plan it, or even think it through, it just happens and it works like a charm. It's not their dress or anything that obvious, it's more like their smile, the way they express themselves. These people know when to touch, when to smile and when to just stay quiet. They know that a look can mean everything. They know that subtlety is the way to go.
And what really makes flirting all that great is the thrill. That joy you get when the other person finally notices you and starts paying attention. That sense of knowing that you've got what they want, and it's all you.
So all that trouble that flirting causes? In my opinion it's so worth it, because a life without flirts and without flirting is just not worth living.
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